It is the responsibility of each individual to protect themselves in their sexual relationships. This means that you should not wait for a potential partner to tell you that they have an STI. Instead, it is important to discuss test results and safe sex practices before engaging in any sexual activity. This includes actively talking about the last time you were tested, sharing your results, and asking your partner the same.
If you are unsure of what to do, it is best to consult with your healthcare provider for advice on how to proceed. When it comes to discussing STD test results with your partner, it is important to remain focused on the conversation. Many people can have an STD for years without knowing it, as most STDs do not present any symptoms. The only way to know for sure if someone has an STD is through testing. If you are considering having sex with a new partner whose STD status is unknown, it is important to take the necessary precautions. It is also important to practice having this conversation from both perspectives.
This means being prepared for both scenarios - when you are the partner who has the STD results and when you are the partner who hears the STD test results. If your partner is not willing to get tested regularly, it is best to emphasize that this is a non-negotiable point for you. Your healthcare provider can help you understand what tests you may need. Fortunately, if you are comfortable discussing STDs and sexual health, you and your partner can work together to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections. Some health departments have programs that allow partners to be notified of exposure without giving out your name, unless you choose to do so.
It is important to remember that having an STD does not say anything about you as a person - it is simply a health issue. There are many myths surrounding STDs, so it is important to read up on the facts and be prepared to answer any questions your partner may have. Two of the most common STDs, chlamydia and gonorrhea, are usually tested through a urine sample.
